“Part of taking care of yourself is letting others know when you need their help.”
There are many people who feel an inner need to be self-reliant. You say that you can take care of yourself. You want to be able to solve your own problems and fix your own issues. The problem with that is that you weren’t created to do life alone. It wasn’t God intention. At some point you are going to need someone else and part of taking care of yourself is knowing when you need others.